Let’s not forget the erasure of healthy black relationships from the media as well as the myth that the only way to find someone decent is in the church. The same church that teaches that women should be submissive while ignoring that the Bible was actually speak of a partnership where husbands & wives submitted to each other & worked together in all things.
Why are you all starting this ratchet at bedtime? Do you want me to start ranting about the erasure of intra poc relations too?
(dont give me that look, karnythia. dont.)
Ma’am, you know you deserve that look. Also, let’s talk about how often black women are given conflicting messages & expected to live up to all of them. Can’t be too sexual, must be sexual enough, can’t need anything from anyone, must be willing to let a man be a man, must have good morals, be willing to share a man…the list is exhausting.
Ma’am. MA’AM. Are you throwing nelson and winnie shade at me when it is breakfast time in France? Really?
I’m gone need both ya’ll to have a seat.
Next you’ll be discussing how those very same conflicting messages have sent a cadre of black women into loveless marriages with closeted black men. *violet crawley bell ring*